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Wednesday, 31 December 2014

New Year Resolutions: How I Did With My list For 2014


My favourite way of making New Year Resolutions is to write down at least 10 things I want to do over the following year. The idea behind this is that with a lot of goals you have a good chance of getting at least some of them done by the end of the year. How did I do in 2014? Well, here's what I hoped to do, what I succeeded at, what I attempted and what I failed to do completely.
  1. Explore one of London's Magnificent Seven cemeteries that I haven't already visited.
    Over the past few years I've slowly been visiting each of London's famous Victorian cemeteries, known as the Magnificent Seven. I'd already explored Highgate, Nunhead, Brompton, West Norwood and Abney Park in previous years, so just before Samhain I went to Kensal Green Cemetery. That only leaves Tower Hamlets still to visit, so guess what will be number one on my New Year's resolutions list for 2015?
  2. Visit the remains of the London Mithraeum and the items in the Museum of London.
    I did my best. Sadly the Mithraeum itself is out of bounds as more archaeological excavations are taking place, but I got as close as I could and I did see the wonderful statues from the Mithraeum that are on display in the Museum of London. You can read my blog post about the day out here.
  3. Visit the Rollright Stones.
    I went to the Rollright Stones at the Autumn Equinox for a lovely ritual in glorious autumn weather. It is a beautiful stone circle and a great place to go for a seasonal rite.
  4. Go to the Day for Patricia Crowther in Nottingham.
    Time and money issues meant that I couldn't get to the Day for Patricia, which I am really sad about.
  5. Visit the Viking Exhibition at the British Museum.
    This was a great exhibition and I enjoyed it - although it was very crowded. You can read about my favourite bits here.
  6. Build a Wickerman.
    No, even though I certainly would have had time to do this I didn't get round to it. Maybe next year.
  7. Listen to Sandra Ingerman’s Shamanic Meditations.
    Although this CD was given to me as a Yule gift in 2013, I finished listening to the last one just before Yule this year and wrote a review. It counts as a resolution done though.
  8. Do a psychogeography walk.
    Back in the summer I went on a psychogeography walk around my town - then later on I gave a talk about psychogeography at the PF London Conference.
  9. Go to an outdoor ritual for the Summer Solstice.
    No, although I got to outdoor rituals for Imbolc, Autumn Equinox and Winter Solstice, I didn't celebrate the Summer Solstice outdoors. I can't really think of a good excuse for this either.
  10. Visit at least three ancient pagan sites in Scotland.
    In the summer I had a holiday planned in Orkney and I went to several amazing pagan sites including the Stones of Stenness, the Barnhouse, Maeshowe and Skara Brae.
I make that 6.5 out of 10. I'll be writing my New Year Resolutions for 2015 over the next few days and I'll post my list on my blog.


Previous related post
http://www.badwitch.co.uk/2014/01/the-bad-witchs-new-year-resolutions-for.html

Tuesday, 30 December 2014

Magic School: Classical Mystery Traditions of the Past


The new year is one of the traditional times to begin an evening class and here are the details of a course run by Wiccan teacher Ken Rees in Central London. The six-week evening class course on Wednesday evenings at the Mary Ward Centre is called Classical Mystery Traditions of the Past.

The fees for it are very low too. Here is the description of the course:
Alongside the developing mainstream religion of Christianity and its early competitors, the Gnostics, there were a variety of alternative options available both within philosophy and esoteric spirituality. This course traces some of these currents noting the geographical spread of the various Mystery Traditions and the time periods during which they were popular.

Examples will include the Eleusinian Mysteries of classical Greece together with their Dionysian/Bacchic counterparts. The importance of the Orphic tradition is also noted as is the significance of Egypt, particularly the mysteries of the goddess Isis. Nor will be the path of the warrior, Mithraism, be ignored. We raise the question - did the early British themselves have mysteries? - And look at earlier romantic understandings of the place of the ancient Druids in this context.

Key issues to be discussed include what actually happened in these often secretive enclaves; the traditions' fate and why they died out; plus the vital importance of initiation and rebirth in facilitating ways for achieving transformation and a hoped for immortality. Thus we will assess the value of the early mystery tradition ethos for both the surrounding culture and for the individual.
Classical Mystery Traditions of the Past is on Wednesdays evenings from 14 January to 18 February 2015 at The Mary Ward Centre, Queen Square, London WC1. The nearest Tube stations are Holborn and Russell Square. The fees are £47, Concessions £16. For enquiries call 0208 671 6372, to enrol call 0207 269 6000 and quote course no 444. Website: http://www.marywardcentre.ac.uk/

Previous related post:
http://www.badwitch.co.uk/2014/12/pagan-london-temple-of-mithras.html
http://www.badwitch.co.uk/2010/03/i-was-teenage-maenad.html
http://www.badwitch.co.uk/2008/10/deities-of-week-thames-isis.html

Monday, 29 December 2014

Pagan Eye: Some Presents I Got for Yule


I hope you had a lovely Yule holiday - I certainly did. I spent a wonderful few days with family and friends, eating too much, drinking, playing games and getting some great presents. The photo above shows a few of the things I was given as well as some of the cards I received.

The thing I'm most looking forward to trying out is the Cup of Destinyfor tea-leaf reading. I've had a go at reading tea-leaves the old-fashioned way, just by looking at the shapes formed by the dregs in the bottom of an ordinary cup, but not found it easy. Hopefully this specially marked cup will make tea-leaf reading much simpler.

I was also delighted to get the Lover's Path Tarot,which I had wanted ever since I read the beautiful book called The Lover's Path. Another thing I'd wanted for some time was Ronald Hutton's Witches, Druids and King Arthur.Although I've got a copy of The Triumph of the Moon,which is essential reading for any modern pagan witch, and also read Stations of the Sunand Pagan Britain, I've not yet read Witches, Druids and King Arthur, even though it has been out for a few years.

Another present I got was a little map called Untamed London: Where Nature Still Runs Wild in the Big City.It promises to be a guide to some of London's quiet, restful and unusual natural havens and will hopefully inspire some lovely days out in the new year.

If you got an unusual present or two, do leave a comment below or even photograph it and send the picture to me at badwitch1234@gmail.com.

My Pagan Eye posts show photos that I find interesting - seasonal images, pagan sites, events, or just pretty pictures. If you want to send me a photo for a Pagan Eye post, please email it to badwitch1234@gmail.com Let me know what the photo shows and whether you want your name mentioned or not. For copyright reasons, the photo must be one you have taken yourself.

Links and previous related posts:
http://www.badwitch.co.uk/2010/01/tea-leaf-reading-my-first-attempts.html
http://www.badwitch.co.uk/2012/12/thank-you-for-my-lovely-yule-presents.html
http://www.badwitch.co.uk/2014/05/pagan-eye-birthday-wine-and-roses.html
http://www.badwitch.co.uk/2014/02/valentines-day-lovers-path.html
Cup of Destiny
Lover's Path Tarot: Premier Edition
Witches, Druids and King Arthur
Untamed London: Where Nature Still Runs Wild in the Big City: A Guide to the Usual and Unusual

Saturday, 27 December 2014

London Pagan Events in the Week to Twelfth Night


Sunday, December 28; Feast of Fools with the London Wicca Meetup Group. Event is open to anyone who has attended a London Wicca Meetup Group ritual previously. Venue is a private dwelling in Tooting. Meet at Tooting Bec Tube station at 7.30pm. Advance reservation required. Contact numbers: 07581 198380 and 07848 448669. Website: http://www.meetup.com/The-London-Wicca-Meetup-Group/events/219243186/

Tuesday 30 December; Drumming Circle run by Shamanic Spirit at a venue in New Addington, Croydon, South London. Every second Tuesday starting 7.30pm. Cost £10. For more details and to book places call 07952 041477. For more information, visit http://shamanicspirit.co.uk/

Wednesday 31 December; Urubu New Year's Eve Ecstatic Dance Celebration. Venue: London location revealed only to meetup group members. Doors open at 9pm to 12.30pm. Cost: £25, price on the door is £35 - advance booking recommended. Join the meetup group on: http://www.meetup.com/london-ecstatic-dance.

Thursday 1 January; Flame of Avalon: New Years Blessings 2015. Location: Wherever you are, From dusk 1 January to dusk 2 January in your time zone. Once a month the Glastonbury Goddess Temple becomes the Flame Keeper for the Flame of Avalon and tends the flame from dusk to dusk. Anyone who wants to is invited to join in on these days and tend a flame in global community. For full details: https://www.facebook.com/events/705045619608691/

Saturday 3 January; Hendon Heathens Moot, Venue: Greyhound Pub, Church End, Hendon, London, NW4 4JT. Time: 6pm. Hendon Heathens meets at this pub the first Saturday of every month.

Sunday, 4 January 2015; Twelfth Nigh celebration. Mummers' Play, the Bankside Wassail and more seasonal entertainment with The Lion's Part. Venue: Shakespeare's Globe, Bankside and Borough Market, Southwark, London, SE1 9DT. Starts at 2.15pm. This is a free event. For details visit http://www.thelionspart.co.uk/twelfthnight/index.html

Wednesday, 24 December 2014

Question: What's Your Faviourite Yuletide Movie?

Although the Winter Solstice is now behind us, the seasonal holidays are ahead and plenty of time to settle in front of the telly with a mince pie, some mulled wine or hot chocolate and a good festive film. My favourite Yuletide movie with a pagan theme is the classic Disney cartoon Bambi.

But what are your favourite films with a pagan theme to watch over the winter bank holiday break?

Please leave a comment below to share your tips for winter holiday watching.

Think About the Elderly and Lonely This Christmas

Apparently 6.9 million older people in UK are relieved when Christmas is over, which is really sad and something worth bearing in mind. So much of the emphasis in the run-up to the festive season is about having fun with friends and family and sharing a home-cooked feast, but one in 10 older people say they expect to be eating a pre-purchased ready meal on Christmas Day, many will be completely alone and some won't even get a single card or present.

Okay, that information came from a press release I received late yesterday afternoon, but according to Ember Inns, around 500,000 senior citizens will be spending Christmas Day alone in the UK this year.

Research carried out by the pub chain found that 20 per cent of older people wake up on Christmas morning dreading the day ahead, 40 per cent are relieved when Christmas is over and 3 per cent of older people did not get a Christmas present last year. The worst part about Christmas Day for almost one in 10 older people is spending so much time alone, with a further 11 per cent saying they get upset when they see other people with families on December 25.

Almost one in 10 older people say they expect to be eating a pre-purchased ready meal on Christmas Day this year, the research revealed. More than half of all 75-year-olds live alone and one in 10 suffers says they suffer "intense" loneliness but are reluctant to ask for help and 17% of older people think Christmas is "just like any other day".

The press release was promoting the fact that Ember Inns, which says it prides itself on being part of the communities, has donated a table at each of its 130 pubs across the UK on Christmas Day to lonely older people from the local community. Each pub has donated a four-course Christmas dinner, free of charge, so lonely older people can spend the day surrounded by their peers.

Fiona Richardson, marketing manager for Ember Inns, said, “At Ember Inns we’re passionate about communities. We all have friends or relatives that live alone and this can be a very tough for them, especially in the run up to Christmas and our pubs are ideally situated in the community to help. Our pubs are all over the UK so lonely older people are sure to have one near them that they can rely on for the perfect Christmas this year.”

I think this is a nice initiative. There are 130 Ember Inns across the UK and you can find out where they are at the website: www.emberinns.co.uk

Of course, we could all do a bit more to make sure any old people that we know of are OK at this time of year. If an elderly person is living alone in your street, you could consider popping around on Christmas Eve with a card and asking if they are OK or if they need anything or any help.

Charity Age UK is running a big campaign to help end loneliness for the elderly this Christmas and you can find out more about that here: http://www.ageuk.org.uk/

Tuesday, 23 December 2014

News: Solstice at Newgrange & Stonehenge; La Befana

"Pagans gather at Newgrange to mark winter solstice" - story at Belfast Telegraph.

"Pictures from winter solstice at Stonehenge, Revellers, druids and pagans celebrate winter solstice" - story at Bristol Post.

"Forget Santa. You Should Celebrate La Befana - Because what Christmas needs is a wine drinking witch" - story at Slate.

Healing with Sandra Ingerman's Shamanic Meditations

Last Christmas I was given a CD of Shamanic Meditations: Guided Journeys for Insight, Vision, and Healing.One of my new year resolutions for 2104 was to listen to the meditations and hopefully gain more of an experience of shamanic practices.

I did quite well with my resolution in the spring and listened to the first in the two-CD set. That includes an introduction and explanation of what shamanism is, followed by three guided journeys. They are:
  • Welcoming in the spirits
  • Journey to the Lower World to meet a guardian spirit
  • Journey to the Upper World to meet a teacher in human form.
What I particularly liked about them was that Sandra demonstrates the use of various different musical instruments used by shamans to enter a state of awareness suitable for journeying. I'd only ever used a drum before so it was good to experience other sounds.

However, as is so often the case with new year resolutions, I came to a bit of a halt. Life got busy and it was only a week or so ago - when I was looking for some Yuletide music - that I rediscovered my Shamanic Meditations CD.  Nevertheless, there was still time to finish the work before the end of the year and I put an afternoon aside to do just that.

The second CD includes more information about shamanic practices and the following journeys:
  • Journey to the Middle World: Releasing into the earth
  • Shamanic Initiation into oneness
  • Observing the world through spirit eyes
  • Grounding exercise with a tree
The CD ends with a lovely series of blessings.

Spending an afternoon meditating, journeying and doing healing visualisations is the perfect antidote to all the stresses of Yuletide - so maybe I did the second part of the course at just the right time after all. I would say that I don't think any guided journeys on CD can give you the same experience as learning from a real teacher, but they are a good introduction and worth doing as part of personal self-development.

I also noticed on Amazon that you can get Sandra Ingerman’s Shamanic Meditations as an unabridged audio downloadat a lower price than the CD - and obviously much more quickly than waiting for it in the post.

Links and previous related posts
Shamanic Meditations: Guided Journeys for Insight, Visions, and Healing (Unabridged)
http://www.badwitch.co.uk/2014/05/review-rush-hour-shaman-shamanic-urban.html
http://www.badwitch.co.uk/2012/07/review-medicine-for-soul-shamanic.html
http://www.badwitch.co.uk/2013/07/review-shaman-pathways-web-of-life.html
http://www.badwitch.co.uk/2013/11/review-shamans-oracle-cards-by-john.html
http://www.badwitch.co.uk/2014/03/review-shaman-pathways-druid-shaman.html
http://www.badwitch.co.uk/2014/01/the-bad-witchs-new-year-resolutions-for.html

Monday, 22 December 2014

Hugs Under the Hood: Season's Greetings in Street Art


After visiting the wonderful Christmas Past exhibition at the Geffrye Museum last week, a friend I was with suggested we wander around Hoxton to look at street art.

It sounded fun and the people in an artists' supply shop called Paintworks, just over the road from the Geffrye Museum, kindly gave us a map and pointed us in the right direction to find some really great urban paintings.

Now, I realise street art is quite a big thing these days, especially in East London, but I was absolutely stunned by the amount - and quality - of the creative graffiti to be found on walls and hoardings. The picture at the top probably doesn't show the very best mural I saw, but it is the most seasonal. It is by Art Under the Hood, which I understand is a community project based around Hackney - @ArtUnderTheHood on Twitter.

I really love the sentiment expressed in the poem shown in detail to the right called (((HUGS))): "I love hugs and the feelings they bring / Hugs can help with almost anything..." Yes, indeed they can.

So have a virtual Winter Solstice hug from me. I'll be posting a few more of the photos I took of street art in Hoxton in the future.

Links and previous related posts
http://www.paintworks.biz/index/index.php
http://www.badwitch.co.uk/2014/12/images-of-christmas-past-at-geffrye.html
http://www.badwitch.co.uk/2014/12/excerpt-rising-in-love-by-ram-das.html
@ArtUnderTheHood
@Paintworkers

Sunday, 21 December 2014

News: Holly, Ivy, Gifts, Winter Solstice, Witch Stone

"The holly and the ivy" - story at The Roanoke Times.

"A brief history of the Christmas present" - story at The Week.

"Winter Solstice 2014: 3 Things To Know About Pagan Yule Celebrations" - story at International Business Times.

"Wheathampstead ‘witch stone’ is relocated after almost 600 years" - story at The Herts Advertiser.

Saturday, 20 December 2014

Images of Christmas Past at the Geffrye Museum


In the photo above, the table is set for a New Year's Day feast in a hall of a London home of the 1630s. It is part of a display of rooms from an exhibition called Christmas Past at the Geffrye Museum in  East London.

The feast in the early to mid 17th century would have included lots of sugar crafted into the shapes of other items of food, such as eggs and bacon. Sugar was a real luxury at the time and would have been a special treat to be made the most of. The room is decorated with evergreens.

As the description at the Geffrye Museum says: "The use of evergreens was a pagan custom, but early Christians adopted them as a symbol of everlasting life." Although the bringing of greenery into the home at Yule persisted for centuries, it died out in the late 17th century and only really became popular again in Victorian times.

The picture at the bottom shows a scene on the evening of Christmas Day in the home of a family from around 1850. It was during the reign of Queen Victoria that most of our recognisable current Christmas customs evolved - including the decorated fir tree.

Although Christmas trees had been brought into houses in Germany for centuries, and a few people people in England had them in the past, it was Prince Albert's enthusiasm for Yule trees like the one in the picture to the right that made them fashionable over here.

The small picture to the left shows a Christmas Day in the late 1950s or early 1960s after the presents have been opened. That's the scene that reminds me most of my own childhood. I think I even remember playing some of those games.

The Geffrye Museum has eleven living rooms in the style of different periods of history. Each December they are transformed with authentic festive decorations, lighting, music and greenery to give visitors a glimpse into how Christmas has been celebrated in English middle-class homes during the past 400 years. There is also an accompanying programme of events including talks and carol singing, ending with a ‘Farewell to Christmas’ – the Geffrye’s traditional burning of the Christmas greenery with stories about Epiphany and a taste of mulled wine and Twelfth night cake.

I visited the exhibition to help myself get in the mood for Yule - and it did the trick. A visit is bound to get you utterly nostalgic looking at things you will remember from your childhood Christmases, as well as offering a view of seasonal festivities from the times of parents, grandparents and those who lived in bygone centuries too. Entry to the museum and Christmas Past exhibition is free.

The Geffrye Museum is at 136 Kingsland Road, Shoreditch, London E2 8EA and the nearest station is Hoxton (directly behind the museum). It is normally open Tuesday to Sunday from 10am to 5pm, but is closed on Christmas Eve, Christmas Day, Boxing Day and New Year's Day. Visit www.geffrye-museum.org.uk


Links and previous related posts
http://www.geffrye-museum.org.uk/
http://www.badwitch.co.uk/2013/12/review-old-magic-of-christmas.html
http://www.badwitch.co.uk/2008/12/mistletoe-facts-and-folklore.html
http://www.badwitch.co.uk/2009/12/holly-king-or-should-that-be-queen.html
http://www.badwitch.co.uk/2008/12/what-to-do-at-yule-if-youre-pagan.html

Friday, 19 December 2014

Pagan London: The Temple of Mithras


One of my resolutions for this year was to visit the remains of the London Mithraeum and also see the items that were found there and are now in the Museum of London.

I probably should have checked on the status of the Mithraeum before writing that resolution, because for the past few years the whole site has been behind a security fence. As well as building work for new offices, part of the work going on behind the fence involves archaeological excavations for the Walbrook Discovery Programme, investigating the edges of London’s underground river, the Walbrook.

However, I did get as close to the site as I could – and took the photos you can see above and to the right. The hoardings offer a few tantalising images from history.

The site was discovered in 1954 during construction work. It was excavated by W F Grimes, director of the Museum of London at the time. He had apparently hoped it was an early Christian church, but soon realised it was built in the mid-3rd century and dedicated to Mithras, god of the sun, justice, contracts and war. It also held statues of several other deities that were presumably venerated there.

Mithras was a Roman version of the Persian god Mithra. He is often depicted slaughtering a bull – but the second most common scene found in Mithraic temples shows Mithras banqueting with the sun. One theory is that the Mithraic mysteries were to do with life, death and rebirth and were associated with the return of the sun at Midwinter. According to M J Vermaseren, the Mithraic New Year and the birthday of Mithras might have been celebrated on December 25, a few days after the Winter Solstice, when the days are just starting to get noticeably longer.

Archaeologists found that the London Mithreaum was rededicated to Bacchus, the god of wine, in the early fourth century. Bacchus is yet another deity whose birthday is thought to be at around the time of the Winter Solstice.

The London Mithraeum is currently not only behind a fence, but is also not where the Romans originally built it, on the east bank of the Walbrook. After the 1954 archaeological dig the whole temple was moved down the road to Temple Court, Queen Victoria Street, London EC4, where it was reassembled and put on public display. There are plans to restore the Mithraeum to its original site, and a projected completion date of 2016. In any case, once all the work is done people will again be able to go and visit the remains of the Temple of Mithras.

After being slightly disappointed that I couldn’t wander around the Mithraeum, I went to the Museum of London and saw the artefacts from the temple that are on display there. It is a pretty impressive display too.

In the photo below, the statuary from left to right along the top is: head of Minerva, the Roman goddess of wisdom; head of Mithras; head of Serapis, Egyptian god of the underworld. In the centre there is a statue of the god Mercury, who guided the dead into the afterlife. On the floor to the left is a statue of a river god – perhaps representing the Thames. On the floor to the right is another statue that might represent the spirit of London.

The plaque in the photo to the right shows a bull slaying scene surrounded by the signs of the zodiac, the sun and the moon.

There’s a lot more information about the Mithraeum and the pagan gods and goddesses of Roman London at the Museum of London and it is very much worth a visit. I plan to return to the Mithraeum when it finally reopens to the public. There will be photos.


Links and previous related posts
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/London_Mithraeum
http://www.museumoflondon.org.uk/london-wall/
http://www.mola.org.uk/blog/lasting-impressions-temple-mithras
http://www.badwitch.co.uk/2014/01/the-bad-witchs-new-year-resolutions-for.html
http://www.badwitch.co.uk/2009/11/reasons-to-be-merry.html
http://www.badwitch.co.uk/2010/03/i-was-teenage-maenad.html
@MOLArchaeology

Thursday, 18 December 2014

Winter Solstice and Yuletide Pagan Events


Thursday 18 December; PFL Yule Open Ritual facilitated by Two4Joy and Friends. Venue: Conway Hall, Red Lion Square, Holborn London. Time: 7.30pm for 8pm start. Ritual ends around 9pm followed by feasting until 10pm. Entrance: £6/£5 PF members. Please bring seasonal food and drinks to share at feast after ritual. For more details, visit http://london.paganfed.org/

Thursday 18 December; Croydon CoA Gathering: Social evening open to all Pagan Paths at 1 Mathews Yard off Surrey Street, Croydon. Event held on the third Thursday of the month at 8pm. For any questions email coacentral@witchcraft.org or visit http://www.witchfest.net/

Friday 19 December; Yule party at Treadwells, 33 Store Street, Bloomsbury, London WC1E 7BS. Time: 7pm. Free, but advance reservation essential. Tel: 00207 419 8507 or email: info@treadwells-london.com http://www.treadwells-london.com/

Friday 19 December; Project Crossroads - charity event organised by the Pagan Federation London. Bring a sandwich, a drink and items of warm clothing to give away to the homeless. Meet at Pret A Manger, Marble Arch, London at 8pm. http://london.paganfed.org/

Saturday 20 December: Free and Open Gorsedd of Caer Aribi Winter Solstice Druidic ceremony to celebrate the Winter Solstice (Alban Arthan) at Avebury Stone Circle, Wiltshire. Meet at the Red Lion pub from noon for a ceremony at 1.30pm. Free event, all welcome, offerings of song, poetry, bread and mead are welcome. Overnight camping is available in the overflow carpark.

Saturday 20 December; Christmas Plays from Oberufer Presented by ‘Friends of Rudolf Steiner House’ at Rudolf Steiner House, 35 Park Road, London NW1 6XT. Time: 3.30pm and 4.30pm;http://www.rsh.anth.org.uk/

Saturday 20 December; Urubu Winter Solstice Ecstatic Dance Celebration. Venue: London location revealed only to meetup group members. Doors open at 7pm no entry after 7:30. Dress code: Strictly white. Cost: £20 for our meetup members, price on the door is £30. Join the meetup group on: http://www.meetup.com/london-ecstatic-dance.

Sunday, December 21; Avebury rite and pub lunch organised by the London Wicca Meetup Group. Members will leave London around 10.30am for a rite at Avebury stone circle in Wiltshire at 12.30pm followed by pub lunch. For more details and to book a place, visit: http://www.meetup.com/The-London-Wicca-Meetup-Group/events/219197844/

Sunday 21 December; Wheel of the Year Festival - Winter Solstice Meditation at Chalice Well World Peace Garden, in Glastonbury. Gather at the Well Head at noon for celebration and meditation until 12.30pm, followed by a chance to chat around the fire on the lower lawn. Free admission to the gardens from 10am to noon. For more details and to book, visit the website http://www.chalicewell.org.uk/

Sunday 21 December; PFL Yuletide Family Gathering at Trent Park, Enfield. Meet at the playground behind the cafe, at the Cockfosters entrance at noon. https://www.facebook.com/groups/4697569447/

Sunday 21 December; Alban Arthuan on Primrose Hill under the Aegis of the Loose Association of Druids. Gather in the Hawthorne Grove at Primrose Hill, London, between 12.30pm and 12.45pm to prepare the site ready for a prompt 1pm start. Nearest tube: Chalk Farm. Bring a small contribution of food and drink to share. All are welcome.

Sunday 21 December; Winter Solstice Blot to Holda. A blot hosted jointly by the Kith of Yggdrasil, Hendon Heathens and the Dawn of the Oak. To celebrate the Winter Solstice at Holda's Well, Greenwich Park. Then to a nearly hostelry for a yule tipple. https://www.facebook.com/events/1575745345972555/

Sunday 21 December; Winter Solstice Ceremony and Activation Alignment: Rebirth of Light, with Aang and Vaz via the London College of Spirituality, Venue: Windsor Suite, Columbia Hotel, 95- 99 Lancaster Gate, London W2 3NS. Time: 1pm. Price:£55 per person. To book a place and more details visit: http://www.meetup.com/londonspirituality/

Sunday 21 December; The Circle of Ankerwycke Yule Open Ritual at Wraysbury, Staines. Location: Outdoors under an ancient yew tree, deep in woodland and very private. Advance booking essential. Time: 7.30pm for 8pm start. Phone: (07735) 528320.

Sunday 21 December; London Dreamtime presents The Snow Queen. Venue: Secret Location near Whitestone Pond, London NW3. Time: 2.30pm, Cost: £3 per person. Booking essential to reserve a place. Email vanessa@londondreamtime.com or visit the London Dreamtime website on: http://londondreamtime.com/

Monday 22 December: Stonehenge Winter Solstice Managed Open Access with a celebration at sunrise at the stone circle. Entry is allowed from 7.45am. For full details, visit: http://www.english-heritage.org.uk/daysout/properties/stonehenge/winter-solstice-2014/

Monday 22 December: Temple of the Heart with Aang organised through the London College of Spirituality. Venue: Latvian House, 72 Queensborough Terrace, London, W2 3SH. Time: 7.15pm to 9pm. £15. http://www.meetup.com/londonspirituality/events/

Monday 22 December; Winter Solstice – Myths and Pies. Talk by with David Goddard, author of The Sacred Magic of the Angels,in a series of talks on the The Western Esoteric Tradition. Venue The Atlantis Bookshop, Museum Street, London WC1. Time: 7pm. Tickets £15. To attend this event you must reserve a place in advance. For more details contact the Atlantis Bookshop on 020 7405 2120.

Monday 22 December; Psychic Circle run by Shamanic Spirit at a venue in Croydon, South London. The circle is held on Mondays fortnightly starting at 7.30pm. Cost £5. For more details and to book places call 07952 041477. For more information, visit http://shamanicspirit.co.uk/

Tuesday 23 December; Crossbones Vigil to honour The Goose and the outcast dead of Cross Bones Graveyard. Gather from 6.45pm for a 7pm start in Redcross Way outside the Memorial Gates, SE1 1TA, opposite the Boot and Flogger pub, just north of the junction with Union Street. Nearest tubes Borough or London Bridge. The event is free, but donations are welcome. For more details, visit http://www.crossbones.org.uk/

Sunday, December 28; Feast of Fools with the London Wicca Meetup Group. Event is open to anyone who has attended a London Wicca Meetup Group ritual previously. Venue is a private dwelling in Tooting. Meet at Tooting Bec Tube station at 7.30pm. Advance reservation required. Contact numbers: 07581 198380 and 07848 448669. Website: http://www.meetup.com/The-London-Wicca-Meetup-Group/events/219243186/

Wednesday, 17 December 2014

Review: All Acts of Love and Pleasure: Inclusive Wicca

I was chatting to a gay pagan friend on the bus the other day about how he finds it comic when Wiccans insist on gender polarity in rituals. Why on earth do Wiccans say that a circle must go boy/girl/boy/girl even if there are more female witches in the circle than male – as is often the case?

My friend felt the whole thing can begin to look something out of a sitcom as the men rush around to fill the gaps between the women when the chalice is passed. We both had a good giggle at a few things we’ve seen Wiccans do in desperate attempts to avoid having to hold hands with – or, Goddess forgive, maybe kiss – someone of the same gender.

In this day and age, it's a bit ludicrous, isn’t it?

Actually, when we had both stopped laughing, I told my friend about a brilliant new book I’ve just read called
All Acts of Love and Pleasure: Inclusive Wicca,by Yvonne Aburrow. Quite a bit of the book is about how to make Wiccan rituals more accommodating for lesbian, gay, bisexual and transsexual pagans. The title comes from the line in The Charge of the Goddess by Doreen Valiente that goes: "All acts of love and pleasure are my rituals."

Of course, there are many LGBT Wiccans, but Wiccan covens can sometimes seem uninviting for those who aren’t heterosexual. So much of the traditional ritual material is about the union of the Goddess and God, including the cakes and wine rite in which the athame represents the male and the chalice represents the female. The gender polarity of male and female coven members is considered a potent force in creating magical effect - but not so great if you want to hold hands with a same-sex partner in the circle.

So, how do you get around this? Well, Yvonne has some really good ideas. For example, instead of saying, “As the athame is male, so the cup is female”, you could say, “As the athame is the lover, so the cup is the beloved”. She also points out that there are other different types of polarity. You could arrange things based on different astrological signs, for example.

Publisher Avalonia says on its website: "All Acts of Love and Pleasure is a companion guide to inclusive Wicca, which includes all participants regardless of sexual orientation, disability, age, or other differences, not by erasing or ignoring the distinctions, but by working with them creatively within initiatory Craft."

As that descriptions explains, All Acts of Love and Pleasure: Inclusive Wiccaisn't just about including LGBT pagans in Wiccan circles - or even about making rituals less heterocentric - it is about finding ways to make covens more inclusive of people from all walks of life, backgrounds, personality types and abilities. It is a really useful, informative and practical guide - one which anyone who is running a Wiccan coven or who wants to run a coven should read, in my opinion.

It explains the issues behind the need for inclusivity, offers practical suggestions for making covens more accommodating and gives discussion points, exercises and visualisations that can be used by groups and individuals.

Avalonia adds: "Although the aim of this book is to act as a guide to existing initiatory covens who want to make their practice more inclusive, its scope is much broader as it deals with wide-ranging issues including group dynamics, coven leadership, ritual, ethics, and Wiccan theology and practice. It is sure to appeal to Pagans, Magicians, Druids and Witches, of all persuasions and views."

I first heard Yvonne talk about gender and sexuality in contemporary Wicca at the Pagan Federation London’s conference this autumn - and it was that talk that made me eager to read her book when it was released. All Acts of Love and Pleasure: Inclusive Wiccais Yvonne's eighth published work, others include The Sacred Grove: Mysteries of the Treeand A Little Book of Serpents.

She is a Gardnerian Wiccan who is passionate about equality - and her passion has produced an inspiring and thought-provoking book that could help Wicca as an initiatory tradition grow to become the inclusive religion it ought to be.